Protector, provider, paymaster
While traveling on a cruise holiday a few years ago, I noticed that one of the most popular T-shirts for sale was a simple stylized kind with the slogan “Bank of Dad” boldly emblazoned on top of a bank machine. I thought it to be quite amusing, however my 12-year-old daughter was even more amused and insisted that I purchase it.
It amazed me how she understood, although in jest, the significance of the traditional male role of providing for a family and the expectations that her needs would be met. Granted, that role has changed somewhat over the years but still, for most of us men, it is a reality. That role often continues even when our own children are grown and still depending on us financially for one reason or another. When hardship comes calling who else can you depend on but good old Dad?
Unfortunately for some of us, the role of provider can be seriously impacted due to an unexpected event such as illness, accident, or in the worst case imaginable, death.
Fortunately there are some very simple solutions to ensure that everything will be covered should the need arise.
It is always a good idea to have adequate disability, critical illness, and life insurance. As we go through life our needs change and we should periodically review each component to ensure that the family’s well-being will be looked after. In fact, as we approach the retirement years, there are some new innovative products that take all the worry and risk out of whether you will outlive your retirement money, thus ensuring that the “Bank of Dad” never runs out of cash!
As Father’s Day approaches, sit back and enjoy how much you are appreciated by others and what impact your efforts have made in the lives of your children and significant others, and don’t forget that this is a day to relax and treat yourself.